If you have just broken up with your ex, I strongly suggest that you stop feeling sad and having feelings of regret over the breakup. It is still very possible for you to win back your ex and continue a loving relationship with him or her. So, don’t despair! Your circumstance is not yet totally hopeless, even if your ex has already started dating someone else.
One of the first things I advise you to do in winning back your ex, is to carefully try to re-establish a safe friendship with him or her, and there are many ways you can start doing this. You can contact your ex lover by sending them an email and letting them know that you are not trying to connect with them on a romantic level, but since they will always have a place in your heart, you just want to know how they are doing. Mentioning this will cause your ex’s guards to come down and he or she may reply and give you a lengthy update. Once they do this, you can drop hints to let them know how sorry you are and that you understand why they broke up with you. It’s also important to never show signs of weakness or depression by whining and begging your ex to forgive you. Doing this will get you nowhere in the friendship and may actually turn them away.
With that being said, your aim should be to become his or her trusted friend for now. Since both of you have been in a very close friendship, for quite some time, your ex may be willing to share more of his worries, problems and feelings with you. Use this information to your advantage. However, if you want to win back your ex successfully, you may have to be a little mysterious around him or her. What I mean when I say mysterious is that you may have to get your ex’s interest back by showing him or her a new & unique side of you that they have never seen before.
But, regardless of what you decide to do, don’t sit at home feeling lonely and sorry for yourself. As for any severe breakup, you will have to keep yourself busy to get your emotions away from grieving over the relationship. You can start going to the gym more, signing up for a foreign language class, or do some volunteer work. Doing this will not only alleviate the feelings of depression, but will also give you interesting stories to tell your ex when reestablishing the friendship and trying to win back your ex for good.
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